Parenting Quiz
Parenting has always been challenging. And if there was ever a period when parents would find their job challenging, it is right now. However, this is one of the most satisfying relationships and one that brings everyone involved great satisfaction. Take on this fun quiz to explore what would be your best choice in the given situations below. And check the scores at the end of it with interpretations:
1. You frequently ask your daughter for assistance with crossword puzzles since she has a gift for language. So do you?
a) Yes, I do
b) Not Really
c) Sometimes
2. Your son, who is eight years old, has suggested a creative, however a little childish way to commemorate your tenth wedding anniversary. That’s intriguing, you remark. ‘Let’s see how we can work it out?’
a) Agree
b) Disagree
c) Neutral
3. Your daughter wants to talk to you because she is sad after fighting with a friend. How would you handle it?
a) You tell her to stop bothering you with her pointless concerns.
b) You patiently hear what she has to say, and let her know that you understand how upset she is.
c) You assure her and tell her she’ll feel better soon.
4. Your son invites you to join him in a game. You tell him that you’re busy and won’t be able to play with him right now.
a) Agree
b) Disagree
c) Neutral
5. The outfits you picked out for your child to wear to a school event are not what she wants to wear. You agree to what she asks.
a) I agree to her choices.
b) I do not accept this behaviour.
c) Sometimes based on the event and her choice.
6. Even when you believe your actions toward your child were unreasonable, you don’t feel the need to express apologies. What is your reaction?
a) I do not see the need to apologise.
b) I reason out and express my regret.
c) Sometimes based on situations.
7. You completely trust your child to make judgments about things like who to play with, what TV shows to watch, and how much time to spend on homework.
a) I allow him.
b) I do not allow the decisions.
c) Sometimes I do.
8. Your son claims he hasn’t finished his homework right before he needs to leave for school. You help him in finishing it so he won’t get into trouble.
a) Agree
b) Disagree
c) Neutral
9. Whenever you set boundaries for something, like watching TV, you should explain them to your kids. What do you do?
a) I do explain.
b) I don’t think I need to explain.
c) Sometimes based on the behaviour.
10. You believe in “Spare the rod and spoil the child.”
a) Agree
b) Disagree
c) Neutral
11. Your kid promises to return by 10pm before leaving for a party with his buddies. But when he returns at 1 am, you let him go to bed without immediately asking him to explain why he is late.
a) Agree
b) Disagree
c) Neutral
12. You have to leave the house for roughly 30 minutes. Only your 10-year-old son and your 4-year-old daughter are present at home. You request that your son watch over his sister till you get back.
a) Yes I have trained my son.
b) Never, I cannot leave them unattended by an adult.
c) Sometimes, based on the situation.
13. You may feel tempted to advise your child on how to schedule her time when she first begins to study. You don’t, though, since you think kids should be pushed to be as independent as they can be.
a) I always let her be independent.
b) I disagree and have to plan it for her.
c) Sometimes.
14. In college, your daughter plans to pursue commercial art. However, given her strong performance in science, you insist that she complete her BSc, as it will be much more beneficial for landing a job.
a) Agree
b) Disagree
c) Neutral
15. Your son is quite bored because all of his pals have left town for the summer break. When he complains to you, you offer him advice, but you also remind him that ultimately coming up with ways to fill his time is his duty.
a) Yes I do help him and explain the same.
b) I do not attend to his complains.
c) Sometimes based on the situation.
16. Your son is devastated after losing his beloved pet dog. You advise him that getting a new pet will definitely make him feel better, but the choice is ultimately his.
a) Yes I advise, but the choice is his.
b) I do not let him decide.
c) Sometimes its neutral.
17. Your four-year-old is happily playing alone. However, you feel obligated to stay by his side in case he unexpectedly needs you.
a) Yes I am always around when my child is alone.
b) If my child is happy, I do not need to be around all the time.
c) Would vary based on situation.
18. You and your child often play games that have no structure or aim but are just good fun.
a) Agree
b) Disagree
c) Neutral
19. Children typically only pay attention to you if you scream at them..
a) I agree to it.
b) I disagree can get their attention without shouting.
c) It’s neutral.
20. Giving your children what they desire will increase their affection for you.
a) Agree
b) Disagree
c) Neutral
21. You have been treating your child quite harshly, how will manage this situation?
a) They may sulk initially, but will eventually get over it.
b) Will apologize.
c) Believe that such harshness is necessary to toughen him.
22. Your attention has been drawn to a parent’s complaint about your child’s rude behaviour. How would you react to it?
a) You slap your kid in front of the parent right away.
b) Before reacting, you hear your child’s side of the story.
c) You say that your child can never be rude.
23. Your child has come home upset from school after receiving an unfair punishment. In a fit of rage, he begins to kick the furniture. How do you react to this behaviour?.
a) You reassure him and offer him to discuss it with you.
b) You slap him and tell him to be quiet.
c) You don’t respond; allow him to express his rage.
24. You are quite anxious about your boss’s punishment. Your eight-year-old child notices your annoyance and inquires as to what the matter is. You…
a) Snap at him for asking questions.
b) Share what happened at the office and the situation.
c) Say that he’s too little to understand and thank him for his concern.
SCORING:
Check the scoring table below for your reference. For every question allot yourself points for the options you had chosen. Then just adding up all your points together would be your total score. Read the interpretations below the score card:
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Q |
A |
B |
C |
|
1 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
|
2 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
|
3 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
|
4 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
|
5 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
|
6 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
|
7 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
|
8 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
|
9 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
|
10 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
|
11 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
|
12 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
|
13 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
|
14 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
|
15 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
|
16 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
|
17 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
|
18 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
|
19 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
|
20 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
|
21 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
|
22 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
|
23 |
3 |
0 |
1 |
|
24 |
0 |
3 |
1 |
Scoring Interpretations:
Congratulations if your score is between 48 and 72. Your child should grow up to be an independent and responsible adult because you are a good parent. You are a decently good parent if your score is between 24 and 47. However, there are occasions when you’re unsure of what to do. You’ll find the best way possible as a parent if you clear up this confusion. If your score is between 0 and 23, you should really reconsider your parenting philosophies.
Tips & Tricks to read:
- Encourage your kids to express all of their emotions, positive or negative.
- Set firm boundaries for their behaviour.
- Encourage positive behaviour by praising them.
- Respect your child’s decisions unless they put their health or safety in jeopardy.
- Even if you’d prefer not to, agree to little requests because doing so will teach your child how to make decisions for himself.
- Avoid acting in ways that you wouldn’t want your kids to copy. Not the child, but inappropriate behaviour or action should be criticized.
- When your kids speak to you, listen carefully. The act of listening to your kids demonstrates to them your respect for them and interest in what they have to say.
- Set clear, enforceable rules. Rules should be agreed by parents and to be followed.
- Encourage your child to constantly do their hardest and stress that effort is what counts.